Iron Fist, Velvet Glove.
Er? You say.
She started a writing/poetry list called "Darkwaves and Larkwings." Know where I learned to be (somewhat) brave enough to share what I write? Ta daaaaa! She put together a book, an actual book, and I had poetry published in it. You should see it--it's a better edition than I'll hope to be published in for my first novel, let me tell you. And she published a 'zine called iMPS iN THe iNKWeLL, with all kinds of saucy tidbits.
She is, as Lee says, one of the three poets he can stand to read...Bukowski and me, we're the other two, see?